This would have gotten 5 stars were it not for one thing: a cheater H. Yeah, that's right. The whole basis of this book is a bloody cheater who didn't have the f-ing guts to tell his wife he wanted her to show more of her emotions. He cheats and we're reading this, accepting it and letting him get away with it. This book is someone's life and it's stupid that this book had a happy ending when I can imagine 1000s of women who never get the happy ending and are stuck with a bad taste in their mouth when their exes desert them for a shiny new model.phffff!P.S He f-s his wife AND his gf and THEN also tells his wife about it in the end... like he says ['After you f-ing changed your looks and attitude and I fell for you']... "I wasn't able to perform with my mistress/gf but I tried my darndest and I succeeded a coupla times...be proud of me!" SWINE!